I do not disagree. However, you cannot fault someone when you do not know all the personal details. In the end, people do make mistakes. [ Pointed and direct, there's no layer of suggestion here. ] Especially when a situation is dire, it's not always easy to think quickly even if you've experience in doing so.

[ It's awfully hypocritical of him, she thinks, but it's not her place to say when she doesn't have all the details and wasn't present. It's more an attempt to get him to see things from another point of view. ]

All that can be done is move forward, wouldn't you agree? We learn from a mistake like that and try to ensure things like that do not happen again.