You're allowing your past regrets and your fear of the future to dictate your current actions.

[Qui-Gon delivers his feedback free of any accusations, keeping his cadence neutral, if not more on the sympathetic side.]

Dwelling on what could have been won't make it a reality, Ezra. Just as dwelling on what could come to pass is not enough to make it happen, let alone the way you want.

[If that were the case, he'd have many more friends alive by his side today.]

As Jedi, we have to surrender ourselves to those facts and trust in the Force.