Ah, worry not, I understand. The first time I arrived here, I had difficulty adjusting too.

[ Her smile is bright and reassuring; the air around her is warm and carries the faint, calming fragrance of cherry blossoms. She approaches the window, studying it to determine what the best course of action for fixing a stranger's window could be. ]

If you can identify the emotions which are leading to this. . . then it will be easier to counteract them.